Can a NEGATIVE actually be a POSITIVE?

In a recent survey this question got a response that at first I was upset with:(.  

Since posting in our private Facebook I have also had other members react to it and message me as they thought it was unfair what was written.

Below is a snippet of the Survey Form.  Refer to Question 2 and the only negative response that was in blue.

Wow did that hit me hard.  Out of 19 responses I got one negative and that is what I focused on.  I knew though from speaking with this member that it was actually coming from a place of love and frustration.  Niche Networkers - Coach Support private Facebook was created originally back in 2013 to help us all in this crazy online world as new coaches to support one another both emotionally and technically.

Quite a lot of us in this group became members of onlinecoachsupport.com and have grown considerably in some ways but seem to be still stuck in other ways.  Some of us had stopped helping each other and actually given up on their dream of becoming a coach, because it was all getting too hard.  

Although we have now gained a lot of knowledge, other things were still holding us back - myself included.  I felt incongruent as I wasn't applying what I was learning, I wasn't putting faith in myself to make things happen.  How could I then be leader of a group that wasn't walking the talk.  I had a course that I had piloted over 18 months ago but something was stopping me from putting it out to my target market.  I wasn't charging much for one on one consultations or at all sometimes.  The energy was going stale as it was taking its toll.

This response gave me that jolt and loving kick up the butt that I needed to hear.  The member that wrote that response wanted me to step up, show by example that I could make it happen and also be the one to help the others achieve their goal.  Since then I have signed up with a high priced business mentor and coach (even though I couldn't afford it).  I have generated additional funds to pay for the deposit as well as donations to a fundraising project.   I actually need to generate further funds to pay the rest of the coaching course.  This is propelling me to get my course done and out to my tribe.  I have also run smaller courses that is helping me in the meantime while I do the study and complete what is required of me first.

What stops us is ourselves.  If we do not believe and trust in ourselves how can we expect others to also.

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Warmest regards

Colleen